What kind of dating games do girls play
For most women, a courtship or a relationship is often about testing the man they are with.And these tests are almost always done with the intention of being in control of the relationship.by David De Angelo Question: Hi, I just want to say that I've had tremendous success and confidence with women after reading your stuff... But for some reason this just never clicked in my brain, and I always had this delusion that being the nicest, most sensitive guy she's ever met would make her swoon. I wouldn't think that this was too important if it happened once or twice, but there seems to be a trend here. Answer: I'm really glad that you asked this particular question, because it's hard for a lot of guys to believe that this kind of thing could be real (or at least so common). I guess it shoulda been obvious that teasing women and acting cocky was the way to their heart, as you can see it happening all over. However, when I ask for the number, lots (not necessarily most, but a good number) of girls initially say "Oh, my number's disconnected" or "I just moved, and haven't gotten a new phone number installed yet." However, when I give a cocky response, or even if I just say "yeah right", they IMMEDIATELY concede and give me their number... I'm just wondering why they make up those lies if they're going to give in INSTANTLY." In response to your question, I'm going to give a two-pronged answer: 1) The psychology of what's going on here.
On the other hand, men that say (Some of my favorites): "Oh, it's OK... That's nothing to be embarrassed about" or "And you expect me to believe that? So here are a few things to remember: Of course, if you use my 3-Minute technique the way I've presented it in a past article and in my book, you'll greatly reduce this type of resistance in the first place, and you'll know exactly what to do if and when you run into excuses and resistance.
And a SAVVY interviewer will have ways of quickly finding the EXCEPTIONAL candidates. If I had a dollar for every woman that said: And, lo and behold, she wrote her number down.
I thought "No way, it must have been an accident." So I tried it again the next time I got resistance. As a matter of fact, it's worked so well, and so many times that it's my "standard line" whenever I get resistance from a woman. You'll even find it written explicitly as part of my "3 Minute Phone Number (and email) Technique" in my book Double Your Dating.
Most of these dating tip books emphasize conversation, and what to talk about with a women... But the fact is, once you really get out there and start meeting women, you start to see patterns. My translation of what you just asked is: "Why do women play games when you ask for their number?
Although I hardly ever fail with women after being enlightened, when I'm first meeting a girl and teasing her and being cocky etc etc (you know the drill), they respond well and seem to be interested in me.